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When Are We Being Spiritual?

When I first opened to learning about spirituality I threw myself into the study of it and dedicated time to do spiritual things.  And as I did, I hoped and believed I might become more spiritual.

There were times when I thought I was “being spiritual”, and times I thought I was not.  For example, when at the office I never would have thought I was being spiritual.  However, while meditating or doing yoga I thought I was.  I created labeled compartments and moved in and out of them throughout the day.  Now it’s a spiritual time.  And then I’d cycle through what I thought were my spiritual practices such as meditating, journaling, doing yoga, reading inspirational newsletters.  

Trusting And Learning What Our Feelings Are Showing Us

How many times do you feel your feelings, and wonder what those feelings are conveying to you?

When we have a lovely feeling we usually don't question it, we just enjoy the moment.  But the feelings that are downright unpleasant, are the ones we have to figure out why we're feeling that way, or it's abundantly obvious, or we push through the unpleasant feelings because it's what we're accustomed to doing. 

WE ALL CONTRIBUTE One Thought at a Time

In spite of all the tragedies, natural disasters, polarization, political controversies, including corporate, political, and personal abuse, I still believe each of us everyday, seemingly ordinary human beings, are bringing about more peace, love, and light, in the world.

I don't own a major company, and most people don't even know I'm on the planet, but I feel I'm doing my part.  I certainly didn't wow the educational system or set the corporate world on fire, but in my own way I know I'm contributing.  I have a...

We're All In This Together

I've said this a million times, each of us is unique.  We grew up differently, look different from each other, sound different, dress differently, have totally different life experiences.  Our lives might look as though we're on completely opposite ends of the spectrum.  Still, we're all here and we're all in this together.  Every single one of us has a heart that at times is bursting with love or feels utterly broken or something in-between.  Each of us, at some point, want something better for ourselves...

Aligning With Our Purpose - It Isn't Possible...

...to make a mistake.  All it takes is a dance.  To realize our dreams takes perseverance, action, letting go of total control, and experiencing joy.  It isn't an intimidating dance, just a series of steps.  When I dance I have some unique moves, especially when driving.  In the car I sing and dance and only hold back when I pull up to traffic lights.

My desire is to take those joyful feelings when I dance and sing in my car, and to also feel them in everything I do.  And, from what I've experienced, aligning with our purpose takes a good amount of lightheartedness.  We create our best expression of ourselves by aligning with that which brings us joy...

Against the Odds - Me & the Bosun's Chair

Our halyard...the line at the top of our sailboat mast was stuck.  One of us needed to be hoisted up, alongside the mast, in the bosun's chair to determine the problem and fix it.  "Boaty" was I and very comfortable on the water.  Grew up on boats, power boats from antique to speed and we also had a little Sunfish sailboat.  However, I was just learning how to sail on larger sailboats....

I Know More Than Squat Now

I didn't know squat before about managing my awareness, my energy, or about how I was creating (usually creating what I didn't want to experience).  There was me controlling things by making them happen because I could....Miss Organized.  And there was the philosophy of things just happen.  Life happens.  Well I feel totally differently now as experienced by everything I'm learning.  I'm learning to use my intuition rather than take a velvet hammer to my life and pound it into it's organized place.

Life isn't a marathon - Observe a child

It’s an honor to be in the presence of a child.  Children have the most free spirits and unbridled joy.  They can swing to tears in a mere second, but in the next moment they’ve moved on.  They put their happiness out there, totally enjoy the moment and don’t care how their happiness pours out of them.  They skip, jump, and say really cute stuff.  I notice they don’t self-edit. If a child wrote this blog post, the post might say something like…

How Connection Touches My Life

I’m ready to allow myself to feel how connected I am to everyone…no matter where we live, how we live, what we look like, how we choose to act or how we choose to spend our time…we’re connected and feel what each other is creating in any moment.  Every choice I make has an effect on others.  And what I receive in return.  I notice what beneficial or not so beneficial effect I have, depending on my choices...