When Are We Being Spiritual?

When I first opened to learning about spirituality I threw myself into the study of it and dedicated time to do spiritual things.  And as I did, I hoped and believed I might become more spiritual.

There were times when I thought I was “being spiritual”, and times I thought I was not.  For example, when at the office I never would have thought I was being spiritual.  However, while meditating or doing yoga I thought I was.  I created labeled compartments and moved in and out of them throughout the day.  Now it’s a spiritual time.  And then I’d cycle through what I thought were my spiritual practices such as meditating, journaling, doing yoga, reading inspirational newsletters.  

Practicing Mindfulness on Vacation

I'm writing this post while on vacation up at our family cabin.  A little place and beautiful spot that's been in our family for over 60 years.  My husband and I share ownership with my sister and brother-in-law.  Our parents had it built in the 1950s and we've spent entire summers here as kids, and had our summer jobs near to here.  It was a place I learned to love nature, water, boating, trees, reading and developed a love for solitude.

My first radio interview

Thanks to a friend, this past week I had an opportunity to be interviewed on the radio for The Gallery for Inspiration™.   This was a first.  I'd never been interviewed on the radio before.

It was nice that I wasn't obsessing about the upcoming interview.  I went on about my days doing my usual things and only preparing a small amount in a way that felt right to me.  I felt both calm and excited.

"Teach Me/I'm Not Enough"

Our choices are speaking to us through how we feel.  I'm feeling that my choice of attending certain groups is not serving my best interest.  I'm feeling that if I have to listen to one more someone, or many someones, offering something to assist us I just might scream.  While the intention comes from a good place, I'm over it.  That's just me.  But could it be you too?

It's a balance worth creating; working on oneself and being joyful.

For example, I've noticed I've been sliding out of balance.  I've been frequenting women's groups and networking events.  The upside is I'm meeting some very nice people.  The downside is I'm surrounded by women striving to be more and being spoken to by women wanting to teach us to be our best (better) selves.  More financially successful, more skilled, more better at something.  You may wonder if there's a problem with that?  Well, frankly, yes!

Because I'm sitting smack dab in the middle of "I'm Not Enough" energy and I FEEL anything but empowered.  I FEEL yucky.  And, surprisingly my growth feels stunted not expansive.

"There Must Be More to You..."

The following paragraph is from one of my favorite books.

“...spiritual growth is learning to make your life work in every area, from your relationships to your career, as you put your spiritual light into everything you do, bring awareness and love to all your activities, and turn every experience into an opportunity for growth, you are being your higher self.” 

Years ago I hadn't learned how much action, the steps, that growth takes.  I didn't know that it takes work, awareness, looking at me and my patterns, habits, and experiences.  Instead, when I initially started opening to new ideas I was mostly just a sponge, watching others, and studying to be more like them.

I thought I only had to soak up information from reading, attending classes/workshops, and listening to spiritual leaders and then I'd have awesome mystical experiences that would knock my socks off, and result in a deeper experience of life and myself. 

Three Bears Experience in Finding Support

Are you someone who has made big changes in your life?  Perhaps you're opening to consider a bigger picture and there's not a lot of people you can talk to about your experiences?  It's natural to want to be around others who are also in a good space.  Or perhaps you're struggling and could really use some support right about now.

It's clear to me who the friends, acquaintances, and others are that I want to share all or only certain parts of me with.  So it's very important that I make time to meet with genuinely supportive people where I can bring all of me.

Trusting And Learning What Our Feelings Are Showing Us

How many times do you feel your feelings, and wonder what those feelings are conveying to you?

When we have a lovely feeling we usually don't question it, we just enjoy the moment.  But the feelings that are downright unpleasant, are the ones we have to figure out why we're feeling that way, or it's abundantly obvious, or we push through the unpleasant feelings because it's what we're accustomed to doing. 

Winter nesting habits, fleece clothing, and fear

Right now my focus seems to be on baking pies, painting, and lazing around in my wonderful fleece lined yoga pants and faux fur slippers.   These yoga pants and slippers own me and I'm great with that.  I'll take them off in April. 

Lounging around until whenever-ish, is pretty terrific.  It's downright nurturing to just be.   However, I'm slacking around creating my ideas....

5 Things I'm Doing For Myself

1- Use only the most helpful and positive technology.  Last month I downloaded the Insight Timer, an app for meditation.  It’s become very important to me that I do some group meditations now and again.  Through the Insight Timer app, I joined a Global Meditation Group that periodically meditates for planetary peace and well-being.  Plus I’ve created a few...

I just met Joy

Do you ever feel that you're all in your head, thinking about this or that?  Oh, I sure do.  I wonder about and consider things so much, that I tend to go seriously serious.  Granted, while a lot of what I'm considering is fascinating and worthy of much consideration, it's not my intention, but my "thinkiness" holds me back and dampens my mood.  It's impossible for me to be both analytical and joyful at the same time.  Knowing this, I head off to my favorite local hiking trail to enjoy myself...

It's a Good Time in Our World Now

It's a good time.

People, particularly women these days, are feeling empowered to speak up for themselves.  To be seen as equals.  To see ourselves as worthy, to settle for nothing less.  To feel empowered to speak up when we are mistreated and disrespected, by any degree.  However a movement begins, whatever grim set of circumstances started it, will never overshadow the powerful results.  Everyone involved, from those watching, to the harmed, to even the ones that did the harming, are moving mankind forward.  But it will require focus and intention, not to fall back into the role of being marginalized, and looking the other way out of fear, or feelings of unworthiness...

WE ALL CONTRIBUTE One Thought at a Time

In spite of all the tragedies, natural disasters, polarization, political controversies, including corporate, political, and personal abuse, I still believe each of us everyday, seemingly ordinary human beings, are bringing about more peace, love, and light, in the world.

I don't own a major company, and most people don't even know I'm on the planet, but I feel I'm doing my part.  I certainly didn't wow the educational system or set the corporate world on fire, but in my own way I know I'm contributing.  I have a...

How a Horoscope Cheered Me Up

No one can make us happy, give us peace, or a sense of purpose.  I had to change the way I thought of myself and look at where all those limiting thoughts started from.  And my life now is more and more unicorns and rainbows.

Years ago, what I was opening to I kept private because

My suspicion was realized when a family member said...

Gardening and the Art of Slowing Down

The other day I drove home in the middle of the day with garden supplies and noticed two deer meandering on our property.  They were in no hurry and seemed pretty content.  And then I felt contentment, though I did wonder if they just munched a little on our redbud sapling.  When they heard my car come down the dirt road one looked back at me and hung out while I experienced him or her....

We're All In This Together

I've said this a million times, each of us is unique.  We grew up differently, look different from each other, sound different, dress differently, have totally different life experiences.  Our lives might look as though we're on completely opposite ends of the spectrum.  Still, we're all here and we're all in this together.  Every single one of us has a heart that at times is bursting with love or feels utterly broken or something in-between.  Each of us, at some point, want something better for ourselves...

Learning from the Perfect Person at the Perfect Time

So I'm noodling around with a workshop I'll be contributing to in a few weeks.  My section is about setting and working towards our vision of our best, pertaining to finding and aligning with our purpose.  It's no accident that I'm leading the section where we discuss concrete steps....

Habits that Create the Best Possibilities

Here are some things I practice to be aware of.  We all have our own ways to be at our best and attract our best possibilities and these may or may not work for you.  It's whatever supports you and empowers you.  For me, with so many experiences that I'm having just about every day now, it's helpful to remember and practice whatever feels right at the time.  It's pretty ordinary yet offering a beautiful shift in my day....